The journey, not the arrival, matters. T.S. Elliot

Tuesday, December 26, 2023

Planning, Preparing and Prospering

 How do you find all those things to do? <- That question is thrown at me a lot when I share my planning for vacations. Now, to understand a little bit about me and my proclivity for planning you have to understand some about me as a person. I'm a type-A, first born, gen x'er with control issues and a need for dopamine. All that incredible craziness lends itself to one thing... an organized planner.

I usually start with a single location or 'thing' we want to do and build from there. Our first outing with the RV will be to Little Elm, TX. Never heard of it? Me either prior to a Tikbook (I'm not referencing the actual platform or I'm sure we'll all be spammed with things) post about a Harry Potter Experience. I started researching to see if, and or when, it would be coming to western NY and found no such plans. So, was born the first trip to Texas for myself and spawn.

From that first single activity I will build a travel plan, be it flights and airports to hotels/motels/unique stays/etc. The activities are the best part to start researching, though. I open a Google Sheet, or use Excel for those of you with Microsoft products, and start logging ideas. I try to capture all the information I'm going to want later for planning. This includes addresses, links, costs, type of 'thing' it is, and any special notes. Don't make decisions on if you're going to do a 'thing' yet, just add everything that's interesting to the spreadsheet. You can sort and mark those you aren't going to do later. For now? FIND THE FUN.


For this trip I knew we'd be driving the RV so I started scoping out places about 300 miles apart, to account for our daily traveling after work. This is how I stumbled upon HarvestHost and boondocking. Because I've done the work and research for you I won't send you off into the wilderness that is the internet to look up anything, unless you're like me and will do the research anyway. But, once I had an idea of where we'd hit on the way to Texas I started looking for things to do, places to see, strange and unusual side stops for Dallas and surrounding areas. Why Dallas? Well, because Little Elm, the whole reason for the trip, is just north of Dallas.

For those of us that didn't know that Dallas and Forth Worth are basically two large blobs of cities connected together... there are a TON of things to do in those two cities. We're a big animal and aquarium family leading me to find those locations first. Then weird/wacky things to do that look fun, like Meow Wolfs. Atlas Obscura is a fantastic source for off the beaten path and weird things to do.

I'm also planning for evening trips to see something to full weekends from sun up to sun down. I grab everything I can find that looks interesting and add it to the sheet.

Once I have as many activities as I can stomach looking at, it's not a hard and fast rule, I start using the internet to nail down where I want to stay during the actual 'trip' part of the trip. You know, that part where you're done driving TO a place and you're doing the things?! Stay with me, it's worth it.

Most campgrounds have decent websites now, so find a few you want to stay at and start the booking process, or you can search for the following to find free, or nearly free, stays with an RV:

Boondocking

Dispersed camping

RV primitive camping

Dispersed camping will find you state and federal lands that allow free dry camping. I defined dry camping before but if you didn't read the other posts, here it is: camping on the RV's own power without water, electric or sewer hookups. You're on your own, boo. Pack in and pack out everything you need.

Boondocking is basically the same thing but you're staying in someone's driveway, in a restaurant's parking area, etc. Camping at Walmart is boondocking. There's a few really great websites that help with this. I'll add the links as I talk about them.

RV primitive camping is the same thing as dispersed camping but might be on private or local land.

Add a new tab to your Google sheet for stays. Start collecting your information of where, what, etc. As you can see for Little Elm we're using a couple of apps, HarvestHosts and HipCamp. This really is because I couldn't find dispersed camping close to Dallas. For Louisiana and Utah, if you hang in that long, you'll see we're staying in far more of those locations.


Are you already overwhelmed or bored? I'm not going to hold it against you. Most are glassy-eyed by now when I'm animatedly talking about planning vacations. Hang in there for the actually PLANNING pieces or go watch some cat vids. I'm cool either way. 

Open another tab, yes, tab #3 in your Google Sheet. This is going to be your Schedule tab. This is where you're going to finalize your stays, pick your activities and get your proverbial ducks in a row. I do this in two stages. I log all my stays first, add in if I have reservations, etc. Then go back in and try to organize the 'things' into days. Yes, I map the entire route with all the stops, stop laughing you never know when you might need that information.


I also have a reservations tab, but you can do all of that on the schedule tab without too much more work. I ensure I have pdf's of the reservations in a folder (same folder where this sheet is going to be kept) and really a pdf of anything else I can think of. Maps of parks, public transportation schedules, etc. Yes, I know, you can just get that on your phone. But if I'm stuck someplace without internet I want to be able to keep going.

And yes, I have an atlas in the RV with a highlighted path marked through the states. Stop judging.

Even with all of that I have a paper copy of the plan, but it's not really needed. I have an irrational fear of not being planned enough. 

Hopefully this was useful, or at the very least entertaining. If you're looking for a trip and don't want to do the planning send me an email. My rates are reasonable. 

It begins....

 Welcome to my journey of adventure, discovery and reacquainting myself with... myself. 

It began one dark and stormy night, no wait... that's a different story. This one begins with an itch to travel and an impending milestone birthday (50, but shh, don't tell anyone.) I decided if I wanted to travel, see this country and all the great adventures it holds I better get on the road and do it.


Cue the purchase. I bought a slightly used 2022 Forest River Forester built on an impressive E450 Ford chassis. The interior was everything I wanted and more. A large slide to open the RV up for living space, a nice back bedroom, and solar prepped. Because, who doesn't decide to start their adventures with a large vehicle they've never driven and a power-source completely dependent on the weather? Me! Oh, and it had all the bells and whistles as well, including power leveling, heating pads on the water tanks, all the cameras outside, towing package and more. I went into this with my eyes open and my research done. I know me, and crawling around under the RV in the dark and mud to deal with levelers isn't something I'm going to want to do.



The RV was just the beginning. I've learned so much in the last two months in preparation for our kick off day. I learned about 12V power, solar power, inverters, converters, winterizing, dewinterizing... you name it and I've Youtubed it. See, it's going to be me and the spawn (Clay) on the road. I need to know how to do or who to call. Exciting? YES! Overwhelming? A little, but I'm nothing if I'm not persistent.



What does that mean for work? School? Well, I'll tell you. I'm a remote worker. All I need is internet and I'm good to work. Even bought a chargeable second screen because I just can't work on a single one. And Clay? Well, they attend an online school, so internet and a laptop are their school rooms. If you're wondering what school he's attending it's called Acellus Academy. The curriculum is based in math and science with really great teachers recording instructions to be watched and reviewed at the most opportune time for your student. Clay tends to like to do school either late at night, he is 16, or in the middle of the day. Acellus allows for that because there aren't live classes to attend. It's worked out really well for us over the last couple of years. It's also at the student's pace, so if you have an over-achiever they can finish early each year, or if your student is like mine... it's turned into a year-round schooling to ensure we're progressing as needed to the next grade.

Along with all the purchases, learning and testing I've decided to take on boondocking as well. Because I don't want to drive to some distant land and park for a week. No, I want to drive to different places, see different things and experience all I can in each location every single day. If you don't know what boondocking is, here's the quick explanation and I'll do a more thorough job in days to come. Basically you stay someplace for free and dry camp, meaning no water, electric or sewer hook ups. You're primitive camping in an RV. Now, don't panic. This doesn't mean there won't be places I am staying with those amenities. But for the most part we'll be driving every day and staying someplace remote.

There are options out there that have done the work for you. HarvestHosts is a great way to boondock but not have to be in the middle of a dark and scary forest. This group has found over 9000 homes, churches, museums, farms, distilleries, vineyards and brewhaus' that you can camp for a night or two. It's an amazing way to see the country without being so remote that you're worried about squatch attacks. Campendium is another great resource that has mapped all the sewage dump sites around the country and has a lot of state and national locations you could camp for free. And lastly, because we're using all three our first trip, is HipCamp. This is similar to HarvestHost but you actually book nightly through their site and usually get at least electric hookups.  


I'm inviting you to come along on our trips, learn along side me as I figure things out, make discoveries and have disasters. I'll share must haves if you are going to start the same kind of adventure, new places you might not have even known existed, my planning process and plans, and anything else that comes to mind.


Chapter 4 - Weekend 2 - Hazlitt's and Friend Matt's Camp

 7/12-7/14 Ben suggested a quick weekend, which I jumped on. In scanning over Harvest Hosts for a quick location I nearly shouted with exci...